I did however recall a quote.... or rather.. a series of quotes:
Holly Golightly: You know those days when you get the mean reds?
Paul Varjak: The mean reds, you mean like the blues?
Holly Golightly: No. The blues are because you're getting fat and maybe it's been raining too long, you're just sad that's all. The mean reds are horrible. Suddenly you're afraid and you don't know what you're afraid of. Do you ever get that feeling?
Paul Varjak: Sure.
Holly Golightly: Well, when I get it the only thing that does any good is to jump in a cab and go to Tiffany's. Calms me down right away. The quietness and the proud look of it; nothing very bad could happen to you there. If I could find a real-life place that would make me feel like Tiffany's, then - then I'd buy some furniture and give the cat a name!
Paul Varjak: The mean reds, you mean like the blues?
Holly Golightly: No. The blues are because you're getting fat and maybe it's been raining too long, you're just sad that's all. The mean reds are horrible. Suddenly you're afraid and you don't know what you're afraid of. Do you ever get that feeling?
Paul Varjak: Sure.
Holly Golightly: Well, when I get it the only thing that does any good is to jump in a cab and go to Tiffany's. Calms me down right away. The quietness and the proud look of it; nothing very bad could happen to you there. If I could find a real-life place that would make me feel like Tiffany's, then - then I'd buy some furniture and give the cat a name!
Truman Capote's words (as much as he was a fat little man with spectacles and a strange attitude) are as true as the night will bring darkness, actually that's a bad simile... in Finland in the Summer, the sun doesn't set all night...
Anyways...
Tiffany's is basically a pseudonym for that place you call "yours/my own".
At times when you want to close your eyes to the exhausting situations around you....
The Reds, the Blues.... and the rest of the primary colours.... you no longer want to see.
We all need an escape.... not from reality per se, because we are reality....our lives are reality... but a place to gather your broken pieces up, little shards of mirror... and start the silent, machanical-like actions.. to put them back together... in those habitual movements... you find a certain cut of solace... and we see a ourselves again... in one piece... and are ready to deal with the mobs once again....
Rooftops and Red wine (the good colour red)
Steering wheels and tapedecks (long drives)
Midnight cleaning frenzies (been there done that)
Or do you, like Holly Golightly stand outside Tiffany's whilst eating your breakfast?
I'm yet to buy some furniture and give the Cat a name....